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My Beef With Diversity & Inclusion (D&I)

This has been a tricky topic that I’ve felt strongly about, yet avoided voicing my thoughts on in fear of opening up a big can of worms.

That said, I do believe it’s an important topic, and I do believe that there are right and wrong ways of approaching it. I’m sure I have blind spots and biases myself as well that will eventually be exposed as I challenge myself on it and familiarize myself with more viewpoints.

My views below gravitate towards the discussion on gender and racial D&I. I’m writing this as a stream of consciousness so I appologize in advance for grammatical and logical disconnects.

“I don’t see colour”

I’ve always believed that this statement applies to me, but I’ve come to realize the problematic connotations that are attached to it. Let me begin by acknowledging a few things:

  • There is a need for a conversation around race, and there are biases that make it an uneven playing field for minorities – and yes this also applies to Caucasians who can be viewed as minorities if they’re operating in non-Caucasian regions.
  • This statement does not mean that I turn a blind eye towards challenges that minorities face or refuse to acknowledge that colour exists and that problems come along with that.
  • As much as we’d like to move towards equality and away from labels, labels help with calling attention to the problem and isolating it for what it is.
  • My use of the statement here by no means reflects a view that I support an anti-equality movement.

It’s interesting because this topic has always grinded my gears where I hear people being called out for saying “I don’t see colour” or “All lives matter” (though this statement has become more an anti-statement to the “black lives matter” movement). I personally feel that the statements in and of themselves are not harmful, and you have to consider the context in which it’s used and who is wielding it. Some people say it with the sincerest intentions, and I do feel bad that they have to be all apologetic when called out about it.

Would love to hear more opinions on this topic from you readers.

Amendment (and yes I love this, my sharing was to encourage discussion to move the conversation forward and increase awareness): It was brought to my attention that this perception stems from coming from a position of privilege. Despite saying I do not discriminate, it also carries the meaning that I do not acknowledge that people of colour start from different positions and have more hurdles to overcome to be at an equal starting line.

D&I for the sake of D&I

Another beefy topic for me – seeing programs, support, hiring practices etc. that require quotas to be hit to justify equality.

I also have mixed feelings about exclusive support programs that target specific races/genders.

I hope that by challenging myself on this, it allows me to improve how I approach this topic as I do believe there is a need to improve D&I and lift up those that are starting from a less fortunate position.

Speaking from experience and taking a real example from my work at Spring:

We’ve explored a fundraising training program specific to supporting female entrepreneurs/immigrant entrepreneurs.

Why I feel mixed about it:

  • There are definitely unique challenges specific to certain people. Creating a safe space for them to share their problems and discuss specific methods of addressing said challenges is valuable.
  • I do somehow feel that creating an entirely exclusive environment may hinder more than support in certain instances. It prevents assimilation into real-life context where resources, customers, financiers are indeed biased. It victimizes the characters that we’re looking to support. It’s not their fault, education should be done on the other side to eliminate discrimination, encourage patience, and improve tolerance.

I don’t have a conclusion here on how it should be approached, there is value in exclusive support, but I still wrestle with some of the drawbacks it carries. Welcome your thoughts.

We’ve debated about diversity in our cohorts and how we can ensure better female/non-gender binary/racial diversity

Why I feel mixed about it:

  • As I review companies for opportunities, I generally believe that I don’t see colour/gender. As such I wrestle with the idea that I have to concede an opportunity for a company that I believe is more qualified, to make room for a less-qualified company to meet the above diversity metrics.
  • I believe that D&I should not be at the expense of quality.
  • The challenge here is that those who are discriminated against, often have more obstacles in front of them. This does put them at a less advantageous position which might also create the perception that they are less qualified. An example here could be that many (not all) of the female entrepreneurs we consider for our program, tend to be earlier stage and struggle more with traction. It could be because they lack entrepreneurship support as spots are often conceded to their male counterparts. As such, by measuring them against the same traction metrics as other companies, I might be cutting their opportunity short by doing the same thing other organizations are doing. There’s probably a need for fairer metrics that don’t specifically favour the discriminated but create a more even measurement for all founders regardless.
  • That said, “What doesn’t get measured doesn’t doesn’t get done”, there is merit on trying to actively improve those numbers, but I believe we need to work on how we do it.

A ray of hope

Recently, I’ve come across a new viewpoint, or manner of discussing the topic that doesn’t cause friction with my own belief systems.

It was first brought up 2 weeks ago at a roundtable meeting with HR leaders in Vancouver.

“Instead of discussing D&I, we describe it as cognitive diversity. Our organization doesn’t outwardly tout and try to attract employees by highlighting the number of female employees, but by shifting our internal mindset and approach, we’ve been able to grow an 80+ person organization with 64% female employees”

Anonymous People and Culture Operations person at a local Vancouver company

The view of taking on an implicit approach and addressing internal biases as opposed to an explicit approach to dealing with D&I issues sits much better with me.

Another recent reflection that I resonate with is in how Reid Hoffman and the WaitWhat production team address the issue. Positioning it also from a cognitive diversity standpoint, but also articulating the challenges of oversight and blind spots that result in a monolithic culture.

Listen to the episode below:

All in, a juicy topic that I believe we need to constantly challenge ourselves on. It’s great to see that we’re progressively moving towards greater awareness and inclusion in the process. Welcome your thoughts and debates in the comments below!

7 thoughts on “My Beef With Diversity & Inclusion (D&I)”

  1. Interesting topic, I have arrived here via chins post on LinkedIn.
    We should learn to see past false appearances.
    These short stories should provoke attitude shifts.

    Don’t believe what you see to be the final story.

    Back in November of 1965 my then friend and neighbor Al was relating to me how envious he was that I would have a full life while he never would because he had downs syndrome, termed mongolism in those days. He conveyed that he would never be able to think fully because of the condition. My comment was that he was smart enough to understand and speak clearly then why should it make a difference later.
    He was 2 years old I was 1.

    His mother pushed the medical system to get him plastic surgery. The accountants and controllers pushed back. She won. Other people’s perceptions were changed and as the result of cosmetic change Al graduated from high school and is otherwise normal.

    Even small people can make a difference.

    50 years ago I attended a feminist rally at U.B.C. with my mother and other woman in the park on University BVD. The issue was employment rights for woman. A redneck came and disrupted the demonstration with a two by four threatening violence against the woman if they did not stop the rally. The R.C.M.P. refused to come out of the station when asked to defend the peace.

    Rachel R who is now a famous socialite from a wealthy family said we would have to make a stand then or we would forever be under the yoke of bullying. For her it did not work , the bully took a swing and she had to step out of the way to avoid a blow.

    At four years old I stood off the bully, it was easy enough I asked him why he wanted to hit mothers with a piece of wood when all they wanted was to work and get paid. There were expletives and cliche nonsense statements followed by departure of the bully.

    Minority status and disadvantaged status should have nothing to do with race.

    An older friend who is of Romani decent studied library sciences and got his degree.
    He never met his grandfather because the fellow was beaten to death in front of his mother
    in Poland in world war 2. He also never had a father. His family never got compensated.

    Most of his life because of his skin tone when it came hiring he was
    lumped in with the english kids who had extensive families and connections.

    Although jobs came up for which he was qualified he was by passed for political reasons based
    on equity fairness. Targeted applicants with lesser skills where hired to promote inclusion.
    The new arrivals with large supportive families lobbied for jobs first and my friend was truly a victim.
    His story is real and he by rights based on fair competition should have been hired more than once.
    He ended up working at a used book store that went broke.

    Today he has no family and no pension.

    Age discrimination and exclusivity is now rampant.

    I am different , always have been.
    My memory stretches back to before my first birthday.
    I am highly gifted yet slow on the uptake for some social queues.
    Poor emotional conditions lead me to drink far more than most human beings can do and
    survive. I quit more than 20 years ago.

    Securing employment for me has always been difficult.
    Everyone imagines I am so sharp it should be a breeze and then they
    pass me by for being weird.
    I have been extensively tested and the best that anyone can come up with
    is that I have autistic personality traits.

    15 years ago I had a job at a local very large corporation.
    I invented a developer role for myself before the role even existed.

    I spent extra hours showing up early and leaving late making sure that
    the department sales results would be ready for everyone up to the CEO.

    The corporation sent out an email asking us to be possible bone marrow donors.
    In my department only myself and one manager went.
    I went out of my way to be helpful.
    I was well liked by almost everyone who forgave me my quirks.

    We got a new director who’s hobby was drinking.
    He would not take no for an answer going so far as to
    announce that all the twelve step members on his team were
    now back drinking with him.

    I was getting 100% on my university computer programming courses that were then being subsidized by the company. My funding was cut off, I never drank to advance myself prior to this new twist so why would I start then ?

    My complaint was met with demotion and progressive discipline.
    I was told in no uncertain terms that I would not be reinstated or given other opportunities.
    Inferior work replaced what I had been producing.

    I took a buyout and asked for an investigation.
    Eventually I received a letter saying that there had been problems with spirited teamwork !.

    Staying sober for 20 years cost me financially and today I regularly help members
    and ex members of the corporation who didn’t stop and are now hopelessly addicted to
    alcohol and drugs.

    I could have stayed and gotten sick.

    The culture there has apparently changed, the drunks are mostly gone.

    My situation is that there are hundreds of jobs I could be doing there today.
    Somehow fear still lingers when comes to having me or others who were labelled as
    not having “the values” participate in the “exclusive environment”.

    The values where interpreted by individual managers and directors who were empowered to make
    bold decisions. Hundreds were exited with zeal. HR did nothing. You could just as easily have been
    fired for not drinking in one department as terminated in another for being drunk. It was a random
    walk.

    Corporate values are being used universally as an excuse not to hire employees who are older or otherwise different.
    The goal is to circumvent human rights legislation.

    I have experienced the meaningless we need a better cultural fit feedback ad infinitum.

    So here it is I am willing , ready and able to work , can demonstrate that I am qualified and on a continuous journey of learning yet I now have members of the state suggesting disability pensions for an income.

    How many more are on the same boat ?

    As far as I know I am not disabled I just have a minority personality type !

    I do what I can to advance myself and have embarked on self employment and entrepreneurship, it is not always easy going.

    The ice at the old place seems to be melting. Who knows.

    It would be nice to not have to live the experience of my library science friend.

    This is my cultural experience of exclusion in a nation that prides itself in diversity.

    Today is yesterdays future.

    1. Appreciate you sharing your experiences in such detail. Thought we still have much to work on, it’s great to see the movement of awareness that is starting to spread.

      1. The most important thing is to always remember that everyone is an individual not a statistical number or a probability metric.

        If we look around us most successful business people come from business family backgrounds. This has little to do with gender or race or even personality types.

        Blue collar , government , academics , medical and other family types don’t have the early life experiences or mentoring pools . It is fabulous that we can all learn later in life but generally we don’t have the ingrained trained edge or a community to back us.

        Looking at the cultural myth of the self made man we don’t have to look far to see that most had fathers and grandfathers that were businessmen and are carrying on a tradition.

        Entrepreneurship is a challenge for all new entrants, we all need a lot of support at the start.

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